Christmas Family Traditions in Italy

Dec 18, 2018


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 Le tradizioni di Natale 

Christmas Traditions 

Natale con i tuoi; Pasqua con chi vuoi,” Italians say. “Christmas with your family; Easter with whomever you want.” An Italian Christmas centers on casa (home) and stare insieme in famiglia (being together as a family). Here are some of the most beloved traditions among Italian families:

L’albero di Natale e il presepio (the Christmas tree and Nativity scene)

Italians in the northern part of the country began decorating alberi di Natale (Christmas trees) after World War II, and this tradition has become more widespread. 

In some parts of Italy, families build a tree of light, a pyramid-shaped wooden frame several feet high with tiers of shelves decorated with colored banners and gilt pine cones. Often a Nativity scene (presepio) occupies the bottom shelf, with gifts of fruit, candy, and presents above, small candles fastened to the slanted sides, and a star or small doll at the top. 

In Sicily families make beautiful little altars, hung with green leaves and encircled by oranges, lemons, polished apples, pears, chestnuts, figs and colored eggs. 

La letterina di Natale (the children’s Christmas letter) 

Italian children, like American youngsters, write special letters at Christmas time. However, rather than simply requesting presents, they describe how good they’ve been at home and in school so Babbo Natale (Father Christmas) can evaluate whether they deserve the toys they want. 

A few weeks before Natale, with the help of their teachers (le maestre), children write their thoughts and express their love and appreciation for their parents on special paper (carta) decorated with lustrini d’oro e d’argento (gold and silver glitter) and figure meravigliose (marvelous figures). The children hide the letters in a tovagliolo (napkin) or under their father’s plate before il pranzo di Natale (the Christmas meal). 

Every year the father pretends to be amazed to find the letter and to read the children’s self-evaluation and thanks for i sacrifici (the sacrifices) the parents have made on their behalf. In some families the father reads the letterina aloud; in others the children do so. 

La tredicesima (the thirteenth) 

This is the present Italian grown-ups most look forward to: a Christmas bonus usually consisting of another month’s salary (un’altra mensilità di stipendio), which is why it’s called “the thirteenth.” 

Regardless of whether the amount is modest or generous, the extra money creates a sense of abundance (abbondanza) that enhances the season’s celebrations. 

La filastrocca di Natale 

A filastrocca is a children’s nonsense rhyme. One of the best known is la filastrocca di Babbo Natale, which many boys and girls memorize and recite for their families at Christmas: 

    Babbo Natale viene di notte,

    viene in silenzio a mezzanotte.

    Dormono tutti i bimbi buoni

    e nei lettini sognano i doni. 

    Babbo Natale vien fra la neve

    porta i suoi doni là dove deve.

    Non sbaglia certo: 

     conosce i nomi
 di tutti 

     quanti i bimbi buoni. 

English translation:

    Father Chrismas comes at night; 

    He comes in silence at midnight 

    All the good children are sleeping 

    In their beds they dream of gifts.

    Father Chrismas comes in the snow 

    He carries the gifts where they must go. 

    He never makes a mistake. 

    He knows all the names 

    Of all the good children.

Dianne Hales is the author of LA BELLA LINGUA: My Love Affair with Italian, the World's Most Enchanting LanguageMONA LISA: A Life Discovered  and the upcoming  LA PASSIONE: How Italy Seduced the World. Click here to preorder. For more information, visit her new website:

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